SAFE Streets Act Lobby Day - Tuesday, May 7
Join the NYS Safe Streets Coalition, Transportation Alternatives, Families for Safe Streets, and the New York Bicycle Coalition as we travel together to Albany and lobby for the SAFE Streets Package on Tuesday, May 7.
Sign up here!
Peer Mentor Training: 4 pm PST, 7 pm EST
FSS Peer Mentoring provides bereaved family members, or those seriously injured and their caregivers, with a connection to a volunteer peer support mentor. Our FSS mentors are all individuals who have been through similar experiences and are dedicated to helping others survive these life-altering tragedies. Join the training to learn more and join our team of mentors.
Register to join the training.
Reunión con Miembros de FSS en Español: 3 pm EST, 6 pm PST
Durante esta reunión, nos reuniremos para compartir nuestras experiencias, conectarnos entre nosotros y construir un grupo de apoyo en español. Juntos, podemos construir una comunidad de habla hispana fuerte y solidaria en FSS. Si conoce a otros miembros que podrían beneficiarse de este grupo, no dude en pasar esta invitación o enviar un correo electrónico a ana@familiesforsafestreets.org. Puede acceder a la reunión por Zoom Aquí
MAY BIRTHDAY AND ANNIVERSARY SUPPORT GATHERING 4 PM PST AND 7 PM EST
Anniversaries and birthdays can be very challenging. These are times to be comforted by peers who have been through similar loss and heartbreak.
Join this ongoing gathering in the month of your or your loved one’s anniversary and/or birthday to share stories, traditions, to comfort others and receive comfort.
This gathering will be facilitated by FSS support staff and open to anyone who has a crash anniversary or birthday in the given month.
Register here to receive Zoom link.
Journal Writing
Expressive writing can ease symptoms of PTSD and help to find meaning in life changes following a traumatic event. A regular writing practice can provide a release that can reduce trauma symptoms like feelings of overwhelm, anxiety, sleeplessness, and poor concentration. Getting thoughts out of your head and onto the paper can offer a safe and judgement-free place to express feelings, build resilience, empowerment and well-being.
Join with peers in a journal writing support group led by FSS member Robin Felsher. No writing experience or expertise needed! This group is open to all.
Register here
Crash Survivors Support Group
From physical pain to emotional trauma and lifestyle changes, the effects of crashes for survivors can be life-changing. Join peers for conversation and the support of those with shared experience. Conversation facilitated by the FSS Support
Register here
JUNE BIRTHDAY AND ANNIVERSARY GATHERING 4 PM PST AND 7 PM EST
Anniversaries and birthdays can be very challenging. These are times to be comforted by peers who have been through similar loss and heartbreak.
Join this ongoing gathering in the month of your or your loved one’s anniversary and/or birthday to share stories, traditions, to comfort others and receive comfort.
This gathering will be facilitated by FSS support staff and open to anyone who has a crash anniversary or birthday in the given month.
Register here to receive Zoom link.
JULY BIRTHDAY AND ANNIVERSARY GATHERING 4 PM PST AND 7 PM EST
Anniversaries and birthdays can be very challenging. These are times to be comforted by peers who have been through similar loss and heartbreak.
Join this ongoing gathering in the month of your or your loved one’s anniversary and/or birthday to share stories, traditions, to comfort others and receive comfort.
This gathering will be facilitated by FSS support staff and open to anyone who has a crash anniversary or birthday in the given month.
Register here to receive Zoom link.
Crash Survivors Support Group: 4 pm PST / 7 pm EsT
From physical pain to emotional trauma and lifestyle changes, the effects of crashes for survivors can be life-changing. Join peers for conversation and the support of those with shared experience. Conversation facilitated by the FSS Support Team.
Register here
Peer Mentor Training: 4 pm PST, 7 pm EST
FSS Peer Mentoring provides bereaved family members, or those seriously injured and their caregivers, with a connection to a volunteer peer support mentor. Our FSS mentors are all individuals who have been through similar experiences and are dedicated to helping others survive these life-altering tragedies. Join the training to learn more and join our team of mentors.
Register to join the training
AUGUST BIRTHDAY AND ANNIVERSARY SUPPORT GATHERING 4 PM PST AND 7 PM EST
Anniversaries and birthdays can be very challenging. These are times to be comforted by peers who have been through similar loss and heartbreak.
Join this ongoing gathering in the month of your or your loved one’s anniversary and/or birthday to share stories, traditions, to comfort others and receive comfort.
This gathering will be facilitated by FSS support staff and open to anyone who has a crash anniversary or birthday in the given month.
Register here to receive Zoom link.
Crash Survivors Support Group: 4 pm PST / 7 pm EST
From physical pain to emotional trauma and lifestyle changes, the effects of crashes for survivors can be life-changing. Join peers for conversation and the support of those with shared experience. Conversation facilitated by the FSS Support Team.
Register here
Peer Mentor Training: 4 pm PST, 7 pm EST
FSS Peer Mentoring provides bereaved family members, or those seriously injured and their caregivers, with a connection to a volunteer peer support mentor. Our FSS mentors are all individuals who have been through similar experiences and are dedicated to helping others survive these life-altering tragedies. Join the training to learn more and become a mentor.
Register here to learn more and become a mentor
Crash Survivors Support Gathering: 4 pm PST / 7 pm ESt
From physical pain to emotional trauma and lifestyle changes, the effects of crashes for survivors can be life-changing. Join peers for conversation and the support of those with shared experience. Conversation facilitated by the FSS Support Team.
Register here
Peer Mentor Training: 4 pm PST, 7 pm EST
FSS Peer Mentoring provides bereaved family members, or those seriously injured and their caregivers, with a connection to a volunteer peer support mentor. Our FSS mentors are all individuals who have been through similar experiences and are dedicated to helping others survive these life-altering tragedies. Join the training to learn more and become a mentor.
Register here to learn more and become a mentor
Weekly Story Map Support Circle: 1 pm PST / 4 pm EST
By sharing your crash story on the map, you are creating a collective portrait of preventable loss that is difficult to ignore. Sharing stories is among the most compelling ways we can focus attention on this crisis. The more stories we share, the more the map will reflect the true crisis on our roadways. Join the virtual weekly Story Writing Support Circle for a little guidance and camaraderie as you write.
Facing Mother's & Father's Day Without Loved Ones: May 2nd, 7 pm EST, 4 pm PST
Holidays can be stressful and exhausting even in the best of times. After the sudden loss of a loved one, holidays can be the time when we miss our loved ones most. This is also the time when we most need support from others who understand. Community members share strategies for remembering loved ones during holidays, creating new traditions, and finding solace at a difficult time. Please join us at 7pm ET/4pm PT.
RSVP to receive the Zoom link
Grief Support Gathering for Parents: 4 pm PST and 7 pm EST
The space to process grief, remember loved ones, and understand the repercussions of one’s individual loss is essential. Yet grief can be isolating, and even close friends and family may not be able to understand all you are experiencing.
FSS founding member and Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Dana Lerner shares her expertise and experience as a bereaved parent in a new support group geared for those who have lost a child to traffic violence. Dana works with individuals, couples, and families, and focuses on issues including bereavement, PTSD, anxiety, and depression. She has written about our culture’s harmful tendency to pathologize grief and disregard the realities and needs of those who suffer from profound loss.
This group is a safe and welcoming place for community members who have lost a child in traffic violence. A monthly facilitated conversation will enable participants to tell their stories, connect with others and share perspectives unique to the loss of one’s child.
* This group will meet twice a month for a limited time. Participants are asked to join each session. Dates include:
April 17, May 1, May 15, May 29, June 26, July 10
Weekly Story Map Writing and Support Circle 1 pm PST/ 4 pm est, every friday
This weekly space is for anyone who wants a little guidance, or simply a little company as they write their or their loved one's story to share on the map.
The new FSS National Story Map is a forum where our community can honor loved ones or their own crashes, and show decision makers the true human cost of traffic violence, beyond the numbers and statistics. We hope you’ll share your story.
Register to receive the Zoom link.
april birthday & Anniversary Support Gathering 4 pm PST and 7 pm EST
Anniversaries and birthdays can be very challenging. These are times to be comforted by peers who have been through similar loss and heartbreak.
Join this ongoing gathering in the month of your or your loved one’s anniversary and/or birthday to share stories, traditions, to comfort others and receive comfort.
This gathering will be facilitated by FSS support staff and open to anyone who has a crash anniversary or birthday in the given month.
Register here to receive Zoom link.
WEEKLY STORY MAP WRITING AND SUPPORT CIRCLE: 1 PM PST | 4 PM EST
By sharing your crash story on the map, you are creating a collective portrait of preventable loss that is difficult to ignore. Sharing stories is among the most compelling ways we can focus attention on this crisis. We now have 76 stories on the map. Please add yours, and share the map with others. The more stories we share, the more the map will reflect the true crisis on our roadways. Join the virtual weekly Story Writing Support Circle for a little guidance and camaraderie as you write. This event will repeat on Fridays * we will not have a gathering on April 12th
Register here
Survivors support gathering: 4 pm PST and 7 pm EST
Gather with peers who have been affected by injury crashes. We will talk about challenges, resources practices that you have found helpful, and listen to your ideas for future Survivors gatherings.
Please join us at 7pm ET/4pm PT. RSVP to receive the Zoom link.
March Anniversary & Birthday Gathering 4 pm PST | 7 pm EST
Anniversaries and birthdays can be very challenging. These are times to be comforted by peers who have been through similar loss and heartbreak.
Join this ongoing gathering in the month of your or your loved one’s anniversary and/or birthday to share stories, traditions, to comfort others and receive comfort.
This gathering will be facilitated by FSS support staff and open to anyone who has a crash anniversary or birthday in the given month.
Register here to receive Zoom link.
Connecting & Reflecting Through Poetry 4 PM PST AND 7 PM EST
Poetry has a unique ability to unlock and express emotions - providing imagery and words to help us understand our own feelings around pain and loss, and share this with others. Join community members to connect, reflect, and support each other using poetry as our medium. We will create a bibliography of favorite poems, lyrics, and more.
RSVP here.
Monthly Anniversary & Birthday Gathering: 4 pm PST | 7 pm EST Crash
Anniversaries and birthdays can be very challenging. These are times to be comforted by peers who have been through similar loss and heartbreak.
Join this ongoing gathering in the month of your or your loved one’s anniversary and/or birthday to share stories, traditions, to comfort others and receive comfort.
This gathering will be facilitated by FSS support staff and open to anyone who has a crash anniversary or birthday in the given month.
Register here to receive Zoom link.
Book Club returns!
Book Club #2: February 20th, 4 pm PST, 7 pm EST
Three meetings: February 12th, 20th, and 26th
We all enjoyed the first book club so much hat we are hosting a second one with our fearless facilitator and literary guide, FSS member Rebecca Sonkin - a writing professor and author, whose work can be seen in the Washington Post, LA Review of Books, and more. We will be reading Men We Reaped, a memoir by Jesmyn Ward, called “one of the best books of the century” by New York Magazine. The book addresses traffic violence, untimely loss, societal failure, and the role of strong community and family.
Before each gathering, Rebecca will share reading assignments and prompts to help us think through the book. If you haven't completed the reading we encourage you to attend anyway. (Fine to listen to the book on audio too of course.)
Register here for meeting #2 on February 20th
Register here for meeting #3 on February 26th
Show & Tell: Remembering loved ones
Articles, possessions, photos, objects and memories can help tell a story about loved ones we’ve lost. These treasures can hold significant meaning that helps us to share stories and feel close to our loved ones and to the community that supports us. Join peers from across the country to share special objects and remembrances.
This event is for those who have lost a loved one. Please join us on Thursday, February 1, 2024, 4:00 pm PST/7 pm EST. Register here. We will send a Zoom link.
Monthly Birthday & Anniversary Support Gathering
Crash anniversaries and birthdays can be very challenging. These are times to be comforted by peers who have been through similar loss and heartbreak. Join this ongoing gathering in the month of your or your loved one’s anniversary and/or birthday to share stories, traditions, to comfort others and receive comfort.
The January 31 event is for people with anniversaries in January.
We will meet at 7 pm EST and 4 pm PST monthly. This gathering will be facilitated by FSS support staff and open to anyone who has a crash anniversary or birthday in the given month.
Register here to receive the Zoom link.
Quarterly Peer Mentor Training
FSS Peer Mentoring provides bereaved family members, those seriously injured, and their caregivers, with a connection to a volunteer peer support mentor. FSS mentors are all individuals who have been through similar experiences and are dedicated to helping others survive these life-altering tragedies. If you are interested in becoming a peer mentor - or just want to learn more about this process
Please join us on Thursday, January 25th, 6:30 EST | 3:30 pm PST
Register here. We will send a confirmation email with information about the training.
National Story Map Intro session: Guidance for writing your story, ask questions and share Feedback
Our new national story map is ready for lift off! Your stories are essential to making this an attention-grabbing tool that will enable our community to tell their or their loved one’s stories, and compel decision makers to understand the true human cost of these preventable crashes. Learn about how you can share your story on Tuesday, January 23rd, 2:30 PST and 5:30 EST. Register to join this training & feedback session
THE COMFORT OF OUR PETS
We know that the company of animals makes us feel good. Extensive research proves it. Pets have the ability to relieve stress and anxiety, lower blood pressure, and boost our mood. We’ll share conversation, visits from pets who want to be on camera, and resources for pet therapy. Join us at 7pm ET/4pm PT. RSVP here to receive the Zoom link.
COPING WITH THE HOLIDAYS
For those grieving loved ones or the loss that accompanies life-changing injury, the holidays can be profoundly painful to navigate. The support of those who have experienced similar loss is especially important during these times.
Join a facilitated conversation with peers to share your holiday challenges, rituals to remember loved ones, and strategies to care for yourself during this season.
Join us at 7pm ET/4pm PT.
Register here to receive the Zoom link.
Virtual Soundbath Meditation
If you have lost a loved one or been injured in a crash, join us on Thursday, December 7 at 7:00pm ET/4pm PT for a virtual sound bath meditation.
A sound bath or sound healing is an ancient tradition using instruments with deep, resonating vibrations, like Tibetan singing bowls, bells, chimes, and gongs to help release tension and ease symptoms of stress, fatigue, and depression. This practice can help bring us relaxation while also helping beginners to experience and learn about meditation. As always, we will also have space for members to connect, share, and support each other, especially as this will be several weeks before the holidays and the end of the year.
We will be guided by sound healer and percussionist Samer Ghadry, who has led numerous sound baths for our group over the years. Samer blends Eastern and Western cultural and musical approaches with various energetic healing modalities.
RSVP here to receive the Zoom link.
Post World Day of Remembrance Candle lighting and slideshow
Join peers from across the country for a post-World Day of Remembrance virtual candle lighting and event slideshow. This is an opportunity to gather with peers, share our events, and light a candle for your loved one or to recognize your own injury crash. RSVP here to receive the Zoom link.
November 20, 2023 - 8:00pm Eastern/ 5:00pm Pacific
Quarterly Peer Mentor Training
FSS Peer Mentoring provides bereaved family members, those seriously injured, and their caregivers, with a connection to a volunteer peer support mentor. FSS mentors are all individuals who have been through similar experiences and are dedicated to helping others survive these life-altering tragedies. If you are interested in becoming a peer mentor - or just want to learn more about this process
Please join us on Thursday, November 9th, 6:30 pm EST | 3:30 pm PST
Register here. We will send a confirmation email with information about the training.
SAVE THE DATE! Grief: A One-Man Sh*tShow Live and Streaming performance from Oscar-nominated filmmaker and author Colin Campbell
SAVE THE DATE!
After a drunk driver killed both of his children in a horrific crash Colin Campbell channeled his anguish into a tragic-comic exploration of our culture's inability to talk about grief.
A powerful storyteller known for connecting with audiences with honesty and compassion, Colin gets into the weeds of grief, exploring tough questions around human connection and dispelling misconceptions about loss and heartbreak.
Following the performance, Colin will join in conversation with Joyal Mulheron, Director of Evermore, a leading bereavement advocacy organization. Audience members will have an opportunity to share questions, and those attending in person can join Colin for a reception and book signing. RSVP here.
community read (Our version of a book club)
NOTE: Book club meetings are at 4-5 pm PST/7-8 pm EST
We are thrilled to announce our inaugural Community Read, which we anticipate will occur twice a year and provide us the opportunity to gather around art and culture that touches on traffic violence. For our first “Read” we will discuss A Death in the Family by James Agee. Published in 1957, this autobiographical novel chronicles the crash that killed the author’s father and its searing impact. This year marks the 65th anniversary of its Pulitzer win.
Agee was six when his father died in 1915. He describes a devastation we know too well. The crash takes the life of a beloved parent, husband, and son, and destroys the contentment of a young family. The language is by turns tender and tough, but always precise.
We will meet on Zoom on four consecutive Mondays in October, in addition to providing a platform for discussion online.
Open to all community members. Facilitated by Aly Geller, Support Services Manager; Judith Kottick, Support Lead and FSS Founding Member; Rebecca Sonkin, Literary Lead and FSS Community Member.
We will meet weekly over the course of 4 weeks. Sign up here to participate.
Reunion con Miembros de FSS en Espanol
Nos reuniremos virtualmente para compartir nuestras experiencias conectarnos en Espanol. Juntos, podemos construir una comunidad de habla hispana fuerte y solidaria en FSS. Si conoce a otros miembros que podrian beneficiarse de este grupo, no dude en pasar esta invitacion a ana@familiesforsafestreets.org. Puede unirse a la reunion por Zoom Aqui
forest bathing: A guided introduction
Connection with the natural world has long been recognized as vital to human health and well-being. Forest Bathing or shinrin-yoku, first developed in Japan, is a practice that encourages people to be fully present while spending time in nature (no actual bathing required!). This can be as simple as taking a walk around the block, working in your garden, or visiting a nearby hiking trail. Join us for a guided introduction. Sign up here to receive the Zoom link.
Haiku writing to build clarity and resilience
The ancient tradition of Haiku poetry or "play verse" focuses on themes including the temporality of life, ephemerality of nature and the seasons. These are very short poems that nonetheless pack a punch. Together we will discuss and explore the power of this type of poetry writing, and create our own poems. ALL WRITING ABILITIES WELCOME!
RSVP here
Spanish Speaking Members’ Virtual Meeting
During this meeting, we will come together to share our experiences, connect with one another, and build a strong FSS support group in Spanish. By joining this gathering, you'll have the opportunity to meet fellow members who share a similar language and cultural background. Together, we can build a strong and supportive FSS Spanish-speaking community. We will send you the Zoom meeting link closer to the date. If you know any other members who might benefit from this group, please feel free to pass along this invitation or to email ana@familiesforsafestreets.org
Quarterly Peer Mentor Training
FSS Peer Mentoring provides bereaved family members, those seriously injured, and their caregivers, with a connection to a volunteer peer support mentor. FSS mentors are all individuals who have been through similar experiences and are dedicated to helping others survive these life-altering tragedies. If you are interested in becoming a peer mentor - or just want to learn more about this process
Please join us on Thursday, July 20th, 6:30-8:30 pm EST | 3:30-5:30 pm PST
Register here. We will send a confirmation email with information about the training.
Crash survivors: changing perceptions of your post-crash body
Traumatic injury can alter the body we’ve always known, and challenge the way we see ourselves. This workshop will support those recovering from injury and share tools for cultivating a healthy body image. Register here to receive the Zoom link.
Forest Bathing
Please join us for an evening of connection and a session of expert-led Forest Bathing, an outdoor meditation practice that motivates people to be fully present while spending time in nature (no actual bathing required). The event will be held at our beautiful Memorial Grove for Victims of Traffic Violence in Lincoln Terrace/Arthur Somers Park in Brooklyn (Eastern Parkway & Rochester Ave.), just one block from the Crown Heights-Utica Avenue 3/4 train station.
RSVP here: familiesforsafestreets.org/ForestBathing
Journal writing to cope with anxiety, stress, and trauma
Guided, detailed, writing can help us process what we’ve been through and envision a path forward. Journaling has even been found to lower blood pressure, ease anxiety, and improve sleep. Join FSS peers around the country for a facilitated workshop to help you start or maintain a journal writing practice. ALL WRITING ABILITIES WELCOME!!
Please RSVP here to get the Zoom link